I tried to reword an often given piece of advice Of course the original is the most succint: Happy wife happy life. I was in a mood, so this was my attempt to do it snarky and maybe funny. The secret to a marriage is these two things: Accept everything your wife says is smart … Continue reading Why ‘Happy Wife, Happy Life’ Still Rings True
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Certain Unalienable Rights
Does the declaration of independence encapsulate our values? "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness." We know men means people. People mean everyone. So you may not … Continue reading Certain Unalienable Rights
Transforming Negativity: From Grousing to Gratitude
The author reflects on the tendency of some men to joke about marriage negatively, viewing it as a form of grousing or complaining. This habit can lead to a negative outlook on life and relationships. The piece advocates for the importance of intentional writing to express not only grievances but also gratitude, enhancing emotional well-being.
A Powerful Scene in Stranger Things
The realization that individuals already possess the traits necessary for happiness is crucial. Struggles often stem from internal barriers, and embracing one's inherent strengths can lead to personal growth and fulfillment.
Fight The Good Fights on Thoughts
Writing new thoughts fosters healing and shifts our mindset, enabling personal growth through gratitude and positivity.
Living In Their Parents’ Basement
Our perceptions are not facts. We often get our views wrong. And yet, I also fear that there is an epidemic of young people that fail to launch. They do not support themselves and live with their parents. And perhaps it is true that many young people are weak and babied by their parents. Yet, … Continue reading Living In Their Parents’ Basement
Does Your Family Ignore Your Accomplishments?
The narrator reflects on a conversation with their dad about writing a new book, "No More Ugly Girls." Despite the dad's caring nature, he becomes distracted, leading to an unfulfilling exchange. The narrator feels that their family is uninterested in their life, revealing discomfort with self-disclosure and a longing for recognition.
Why Does She keep Going Back
No More Ugly Girls discusses staying in harmful relationships due to subconscious scripts, emphasizing healing through awareness, therapy, and writing.
How Positive Thinking Lightens Life’s Burdens
Positive thinking aids life improvement; each journey is unique, requiring self-compassion and perspective.
Dial Down:
Holistic Strategies to Move from Chaos to Calm Most of us wait for a breaking point before prioritizing our well-being. But what if you did not have to? What if small, meaningful steps today could prevent long-term consequences of stress tomorrow? Above is one of the great concepts explored by Raquel Durden in her book … Continue reading Dial Down:
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