The narrative reflects on the unexpected impacts of life choices, particularly related to a garage fire that led to the construction of a new attached garage. This new space has enhanced the author's father's quality of life in his later years by fostering hobbies, creativity, and keeping him active and engaged. Gratitude for this change is emphasized.
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Healing Through Poetry: Expressing Emotions
I often find it difficult to discuss a heavy subject. Instead of talking about it, I will rehearse and rehearse what I need to say. I ruminate and obsess until I have to write it down. And it feels good to get it out. I should just begin by writing it down. Poetry can help … Continue reading Healing Through Poetry: Expressing Emotions
I am Too Busy To Care
Is it just me or have people forgotten to think of how their message is received before saying something? I think maybe so. Though it may just be that people don’t care anymore. They are only considering how something affects them and what their reaction should be. People react with anger. They do not wait … Continue reading I am Too Busy To Care
Men Just Want Their Spouse to Listen
Society likes to dictate to women and tell them what to do and what they should do with their bodies. That traditionally things were decided by the man and a man was the king of their castle. However, I want to talk about something lighter. With the whole Men are from Mars, When are from … Continue reading Men Just Want Their Spouse to Listen
The importance of a Flashlight
The author reflects on the significance of his rechargeable flashlight and the attachment men have to certain tools. He shares anecdotes about family members' preferences for specific flashlights and draws parallels to their attachment to farm tractors. The author contemplates the deeper meaning behind this attachment and its role in men's vulnerability.
Memories of Sharon, Wisconsin: A Poetic Journey of Heritage and Love
My Dad is 84 years old. More and more he wants to pass on his stories. And I want to hear them. To process them and to savor them, I write them into poems. Small Town Hall The townhall of Sharon is a stone’s throw away from my father’s heart. Which makes it part of … Continue reading Memories of Sharon, Wisconsin: A Poetic Journey of Heritage and Love
Memorable Phrase: ‘Lean into Your Mistake’ – My Wedding Vows Story
Guys have trouble not saying stuff. Oftentimes, it is not out of malice, but just out of having something too good to say and wanting the attention of saying it. I think I am pretty good at coming up with one-liners. My wife does not appreciate them and so I do try not to say … Continue reading Memorable Phrase: ‘Lean into Your Mistake’ – My Wedding Vows Story
Writing is About Sharing
Writing is a great way to share with important and/or sad things in your life. Even in fiction it is brave, though you can separate yourself by taking yourself out of it and adapt it to your characters. Here is an excerpt from my novel Shattered. MY main character is a tall, fat comic in … Continue reading Writing is About Sharing
Identifying Healthy Actions and Stopping Maladaptive Behaviors: A Key to a Good Life
The meme "Sometimes you need a stop doing list as much as you do a to do list" highlights the significance of halting unhelpful behaviors. Dr. Phil recommends identifying what is working, what needs to start, and what needs to stop. Acknowledging positive actions, building on strengths, and addressing maladaptive behaviors is crucial for a happy life, while also considering the impact on others.
Exploring Vulnerability and Alienation Through Shattered
My novel Shattered is about Comedian, Mikey Haskell. He thinks he has bypassed grief by escaping to the endless highways and neon-lit nights of a road tour. He comes home to the Twin Cities to reconnect with his best friend but finds his emotional conflict waiting for him. Mikey, a young and fragile comedian, once … Continue reading Exploring Vulnerability and Alienation Through Shattered
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