Guys have trouble not saying stuff. Oftentimes, it is not out of malice, but just out of having something too good to say and wanting the attention of saying it. I think I am pretty good at coming up with one-liners. My wife does not appreciate them and so I do try not to say … Continue reading Memorable Phrase: ‘Lean into Your Mistake’ – My Wedding Vows Story
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Writing is About Sharing
Writing is a great way to share with important and/or sad things in your life. Even in fiction it is brave, though you can separate yourself by taking yourself out of it and adapt it to your characters. Here is an excerpt from my novel Shattered. MY main character is a tall, fat comic in … Continue reading Writing is About Sharing
Identifying Healthy Actions and Stopping Maladaptive Behaviors: A Key to a Good Life
The meme "Sometimes you need a stop doing list as much as you do a to do list" highlights the significance of halting unhelpful behaviors. Dr. Phil recommends identifying what is working, what needs to start, and what needs to stop. Acknowledging positive actions, building on strengths, and addressing maladaptive behaviors is crucial for a happy life, while also considering the impact on others.
Exploring Vulnerability and Alienation Through Shattered
My novel Shattered is about Comedian, Mikey Haskell. He thinks he has bypassed grief by escaping to the endless highways and neon-lit nights of a road tour. He comes home to the Twin Cities to reconnect with his best friend but finds his emotional conflict waiting for him. Mikey, a young and fragile comedian, once … Continue reading Exploring Vulnerability and Alienation Through Shattered
The Poetry of Identity: Embracing Creativity and Artistry
I have over 60 pieces of writing published and about half of those are poems. I have always written poetry, but only began submitting poetry for publication to build a resume. It was not until I was named the poet laureate before I called myself a poet. So I like to remind myself and others … Continue reading The Poetry of Identity: Embracing Creativity and Artistry
Unfiltered Monologues: Impact on Listening and Conversations
People talking to themselves can be fun and necessary, but not in the presence of others. This behavior can lead to misunderstandings and hinder true conversation. With a lack of filters, individuals may fail to engage in meaningful dialogue, displaying a need for attention and a disregard for the other person's interest.
Exploring Vulnerability and Alienation Through Mikey’s Story
The drug addict, the criminal, and the person living in poverty are no different from you or I. You think you would have made better choices, but there is some privilege in our lives that protected us from facing that choice.
Taking Chances With Poetry
Writing and performing written word has taken me to open mics and to organizing open mics. Poetry is small enough to try it as a new thing. So are open mics.
Trial by Public Opinion- A Short Story
Tamar Cosgrove testifies in court, grappling with her past decisions and the consequences of a recent crime. Despite her lawyer's guidance, she faces the jury while struggling to defend herself against accusations of complicity due to her substance use. Ultimately, she admits she was raped, overwhelmed by shame and guilt.
The Sweet Spot of Your Life
The author expresses feeling they've passed their life's "sweet spot," a term inspired by a song by Antje Duvekot. They mourn their declining productivity as an author and diminishing morality at work and family life. Despite their melancholy, they hope for meaningful endeavors in the future.