Living In Their Parents’ Basement

Our perceptions are not facts.  We often get our views wrong. And yet, I also fear that there is an epidemic of young people that fail to launch.  They do not support themselves and live with their parents. And perhaps it is true that many young people are weak and babied by their parents.   Yet, … Continue reading Living In Their Parents’ Basement

Poetry- 3 Weeks After Depression

Like many people, I have turned to poetry when I was depressed. I need to. The result, Oddly enough, was a poem. It helped me to know exactly what was going on. Are those poems sharable. I guess so. But I think it is important to go back and edit all poems, especially "I am … Continue reading Poetry- 3 Weeks After Depression

Identifying Healthy Actions and Stopping Maladaptive Behaviors: A Key to a Good Life

The meme "Sometimes you need a stop doing list as much as you do a to do list" highlights the significance of halting unhelpful behaviors. Dr. Phil recommends identifying what is working, what needs to start, and what needs to stop. Acknowledging positive actions, building on strengths, and addressing maladaptive behaviors is crucial for a happy life, while also considering the impact on others.

Set Point-

Studies have shown that  people quickly (within six months) to their normal state of happiness after a significant event.  That thing that happened to you that made you depressed, there are lifelong consequences with some things, you will return to how you felt before.  The same goes for that wonderful event that was going to … Continue reading Set Point-